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Dealing With Stress Naturally
Anxiety, tension and stress are immutable facts of modern life. As the pace at which we fly through every day seems to become increasingly hectic, it becomes ever more difficult to find the time and space to relax, to take things easy every once in a while.
And yet, stress is a recognized killer, a condition that is known to be a contributory factor to many fatal conditions such as heart attacks and strokes. As these two conditions are respectively the number one and number three killers in the USA every year, the importance of dealing with stress cannot be overestimated.
Most of us have our own ways of dealing with or handling stress but it does not necessarily follow that we are all good at dealing with the anxiety and tensions that are part and parcel of everyday living. No matter who we are or what we do, there are always situations or times when things seem to get on top of us, when life throws us a curveball that we just can’t deal with.
In those situations when life seems almost too much to bear, we all have different ways of coping with what is going on around us. Whilst a few resolute stoics might be to handle things through nothing more than strength of character and willpower, the majority of people need some kind of ‘prop’ to get through times like these.
For some folks, it’s alcohol whilst others turn to cigarettes. For many however, times of great stress and tension immediately send them scurrying to the doctor’s office or surgery to get a prescription for something that can calm them down and make them feel less stressed. In all of these scenarios, it is a fact that drinking, smoking or even taking prescription drugs may not necessarily be the best thing for you. Of course, they may bring a temporary respite from the stressful situation that you found yourself in, but unfortunately, this respite is only a temporary. Moreover, more often than not, the stressful problem comes back with a vengeance all too soon.
Stress is a problem for everybody from time to time but the good news is that there are plenty of different things that you can do to reduce stress problems that are completely natural. The purpose of this guide is to look at as many natural ways of dealing with stress as possible, whilst also highlighting how each particular natural stress treatment can be fitted in to your hurry-scurry daily existence.
Before beginning the quest to find natural ways of dealing with stress that everyone can use, let’s start by considering what stress is, and what causes it.
Release and Relax
Use the Easy Key to Life™ method to gently guide you to release whatever is in the way of you relaxing. This is followed by relaxing words to help you go even deeper. By Beverly Taylor. 15 minutes.
Stress Management
Stress is a misdemeanor waiting to happen. Stress will wear heavy on your nerves when it builds up, causing you to feel depressed. You may start to develop unnatural health issues that seem to have no justifiable cause for its development. This can lead to problems, which is why you want a guide to thriving on stress. You can avoid many problems by taking action instead of letting stress get you down.
How can I learn to be stress free?
In order to be stress free you have to work at it, it will not come to you over night. It takes time to train your brain to deal with stress. Stress is very bad for you so if you can learn to be stress free you will be better off in the long ran. There are many ways to train you brain to get rid of the stress.
What are some of the things I can do to train my brain to be stress free?
You have to decide what you may want to try first and see what will work for you.
Some people may like to read, which is good for you to be lose in times with a good book. Others like to just walk or even work out. Working out is a good way to get rid of stress so if your stressed you are doing something healthy for your body.
Stressors in Stress Management
Stressors are something that causes us to feel stressed. We get stressors build up from activities, experiences, or any situation that may cause stress. When we do not have sufficient foodstuff, water, or when we feel overworked, it causes stress to increase.
To learn how to manage stress, we must learn how to cope and reduce stressors. However, some of these stressors are encouraging. When you join in activities for example, you often have fun. Still, stress mounts. Therefore, after enjoying activities the best way to thrive on this positive stress is to relax. Relaxation comes from reclining and enjoying something that brings you happiness. For instance, you may relax by watching a healthy program on television, read a book, or just simply recline.
When you take time to relax you, reduce stress by lessening up the stressors. On the other hand, when you are stressed from lack of foodstuff, this is unhealthy stress. You have the willpower to take control however by accumulating resources. Instead of letting the stress wear you down, take action. Call resources in your area to see if you have options in getting foodstuff to feed your family. Family community centers, welfare programs and other resources can offer you link to managing your problem. This will help you reduce stress by slacking up on stressors.
You can also ask for help from family members, friends, etc when you do not have enough foodstuffs. Perhaps someone will lend you a hand until you receive your next check. Learn to rely on you however, rather than others. Start to think of ways to make extra income so that you and your family can survive. Perhaps you can reconsider your current job. If you do not get enough wages, think of your skills to find out what job you can apply for to increase your income.
Perhaps something in your past is haunting you. These stressors, you can minimize by taking action to conquer your ghosts. Learn to meditate and relax often. The strategies you learn will help you to bring your mind in harmony, which will reduce stress. Learn to accept what you cannot change. If you have emotional responses often because of some experiences in your past, practice some helpful therapeutic techniques to take control.
Try self-talk. Use this is a guide to Stress Management by refocusing on what you need to do to accomplish your goals.
Some other stressors include bills, work, family, relationships, kids, school, etc. Consider each stressor when you are stress management to accomplish blossoming into a new you.
If you stress bills, perhaps you can set up a budget that fits your income. If your problem emerges from your relationship, then maybe you need to review what changes you can make to make your relationship better. You cannot change someone else, but you can take steps to change you. Rather, you can change other people by making necessary changes to reform your conduct, which will encourage the ones you love also change their behaviors.
When you are stressing over children, learn to discover what your child needs to make him or her happy. Happy kids often bring you great rewards. Sometimes you just have to take time out to spend with your children to help them develop healthy behavior patterns to make your life easier.
If you are working, attending classes and sweating family and bills then learn some time management schemes to help you readapt to a new, healthier way of managing your tasks. Handle the larger tasks first, avoid procrastination, and seek support to thrive on stress and to control your life.
Clutter to Clarity™ Mini-Module: Mail Handling
Calm…like calm that exists in the beautiful blue sky, has come to visit with you today. Calm, a state of being that exists in your mind by the thoughts you choose to think, desires for you to embrace it. Calm, a friend you attract to you from within the thoughts you think in your own mind, creates the feeling of calm in your mind, body and soul.
Inhale and exhale slowly and let your shoulders relax as you continue reading the rest of this message from Calm, your internal friend…
Imagine if you could feel Calm’s presence each time before you handle a piece of mail. What would that be like for you? Would you want to experience calm today, right now, or also tomorrow? The choice is yours and ONLY yours because the feeling of calm exists first in YOUR mind.
In the book Clutter to Clarity™ Mini Module: Mail Handling, another resource for recovering clutterers, you’ll get secrets to finding your companion of calm. Did you know that when you purposely train your mind to relax and respond, you also can positively create balanced brain chemistry? It’s true.
You’ve probably heard about the brain chemical called serotonin, right? Well, with sufficient amounts of serotonin, you feel calm; like everything’s okay. When you feel like everything’s okay, THAT is evidence you have sufficient serotonin. By letting Clutter to Clarity™ Mini Module: Mail Handling be your guide to calm, you’ll have found a natural way to create sufficient serotonin. No drugs, just you, doing it all by yourself.
What benefits would more calm help you enjoy in your life today? Better feelings about your self-esteem? Confidence to know you can get things done that really matter to you? Having more meaningful relationships? Yes, these things can all happen when you have more calm in your life.
If these things sound like something you want…like something you have to have, get Clutter to Clarity™ Mini Module: Mail Handling. If calm is precious to you, use this guide to help you create more of it…starting today.
The following testimonials come from some of my decluttering clients and customers:
“Beverly Taylor’s clutter work cleans up the basic mental and emotional clutter, which then manifests in the outside environment and would otherwise take years of psychotherapy. Revealing the immense power of the mind, this work is world changing.”
“Drew”, Clutter Study Participant
”Clutter to Clarity (TM) brings a unique, new approach to the ever growing issue of clutter. By combining guided imagery with organizational techniques, Beverly provides an in-depth understanding of the topic, together with practical advice and a thorough program.”
John Gray, Ph.D.
author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
”Clutter to Clarity (TM) offers a welcome understanding of the deeper issues involved with clutter. Beverly provides ‘tips and tricks’ that range from practical to inspirational, insightful and deeply healing. For a professional organizer, it is important that we blend our practical advice with this understanding, and we can now work collaboratively with hypnotherapists. Clutter to Clarity (TM) is a valuable resource for all … those of us who are cluttered, our loved ones …, and our organizers and hypnotherapists!”
Anita Berg
Professional Organizer, Anita Berg Organizing
Beverly Taylor’s Clutter to Clarity™ program played a huge part in my transformation into a happier, more confident, more organized, and definitely less cluttered person. Before Clutter to Clarity™, I didn’t think it was possible for me to be this balanced and unattached to my “stuff”. Carol B.
THANK YOU BEVERLY, You have NO IDEA how much you have been helping me to deal and face with my clutter issue. Sincerely, Susan S.
Beating Stress
Stress is a misdemeanor waiting to happen. Stress will wear heavy on your nerves when it builds up, causing you to feel depressed. You may start to develop unnatural health issues that seem to have no justifiable cause for its development. This can lead to problems, which is why you want a guide to thriving on stress. You can avoid many problems by taking action instead of letting stress get you down.
How can I learn to be stress free?
In order to be stress free you have to work at it, it will not come to you over night. It takes time to train your brain to deal with stress. Stress is very bad for you so if you can learn to be stress free you will be better off in the long ran. There are many ways to train you brain to get rid of the stress.
What are some of the things I can do to train my brain to be stress free?
You have to decide what you may want to try first and see what will work for you. Some people may like to read, which is good for you to be lose in times with a good book. Others like to just walk or even work out. Working out is a good way to get rid of stress so if your stressed you are doing something healthy for your body.
HypnoClutter™ Certification Level 1
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Deal With Stress And Cope In The 21st Century
Introduction
Stress has become a part and parcel of our lives at present. Try as we might, we cannot keep it away from us.
But this stress can sap at our very innards and make our lives meaningless and quite redundant.
We need to understand how to enrich our lives by keeping the stress away. Here are some ways we can do that.
Summary
Can stress be defined? Is it uniform all through the human race, in all people, across geographical boundaries and time?
What Is Stress?
Stress is probably one of the terms that are bandied about the most in the 21st century but people know about it the least. Though almost everyone says that they are stressed out, they cannot actually define stress.
So, what’s the definition anyway?
The Cambridge Dictionary (International Edition) defines stress as great worry caused by a difficult situation or something which causes this condition. The Oxford Dictionary defines it as pressure or worry resulting from mental or physical distress, difficult circumstances, etc.
From these definitions, we can arrive at this – When there is some situation or circumstance in our lives that we find difficult to cope with, the resulting condition in our mind is known as stress.
When we are stressed, we find it very difficult to rationalize our circumstances. In most people, it has been observed that stress can totally exhaust their mental potential to think. Even if there is a way out of their predicament, because of the stress, they will fail to see it. This is what makes the stressful situation worse. The problem is that when you have stress playing in your mind, the one sure way to remove it is to eliminate the circumstance that has caused it. But in many people, when stress begins to play on their minds, they are quite unable to think and so they do not understand what they must do to eliminate the cause. This worsens their stress.
In the 21st century, we find that stress has become quite commonplace. The rising competition has given rise to workplace stress. Most people carry their work home and can never come out of it, even when they are home with their families. Everyone is in high tempers, even within families, which gives rise to domestic stress. In addition, increasing costs, rising pollution, ever-growing traffic, etc. all contribute to stress in their own way.
The problem is that we cannot see the solution from these situations because we are so deeply entrenched in trying to cope with the problem. This is a global situation today. Even the string-pullers of society in whom we have entrusted the power to remedy such situations are stressed out and even they cannot come up with viable answers.
Stress could very well place itself among the top 3 problems of the current century. If we do not take steps to eradicate it as soon as possible, it will consume us much before global warming and its correlate can.
The best thing is that though stress is a collective problem, we can work individually at eliminating it. Becoming stress-free is largely in our hands.
Kicking Fear And Anxiety To The Curb
When we’re born, we are a clean slate. Pure and guiltless and open to whatever comes our way. But as we grow, impressions are made and lessons are learned. We sooner or later lose that childlike sinlessness and we find that we’re adults with realistic expectations and tons of responsibility. Who has time to consider the deeper issues, not to mention change? However, some of us find ourselves in horrendous situations where we’re forced to change.
You don’t have to go through horrendous experiences to discover inner peace. This book will provide some key steps you can follow so that you can unlock the peaceful side of your self:
Gender Brain Science™ for Practitioners
- Gender Brain Chemistry knowledge is as powerful as neurolinguistic programming (NLP)
- Self-limiting habits disappear when a client releases the deep emotional drivers that cause those sabotaging habits and/or handle the brain chemistry
- The brain chemistry knowledge puts you way above your competition because you will understand the driving force behind why the clients do what they do, say what they say, think what they think, feel what they feel or anything they do. We are driven by our hormones and neurotransmitters.
- This methodical, mind-blowing workshop shows you what drives a man or woman to think and act the way they do
- Discover the unbelievable behavior impact of two neurotransmitters on men and women’s emotions, thoughts and actions
- Discover how to easily eliminate client’s negative thought patterns
Clutter to Clarity™: The Easy Key to Organizing
Do you have clutter in your life? Is it hard to motivate yourself to clear it out? This is a revolutionary program to clean clutter in a relaxed, easy way! Guided meditation uses the power of your subconscious mind to achieve success. This book teaches you techniques and provides guided imagery to create the positive feelings to begin action. Put an end to the procrastination, agony and overwhelmed feelings, and begin a practice that reduces your obstacles for creating a beautiful home or workplace. This is the first book in the Clutter to Clarity™ series. By Beverly Taylor.
Note:
For guided meditation companion CDs, see Baby Steps to Orderliness and On the Path of Orderliness below.
For hypnotherapists, there is a version of this book for you. See below.
Clutter to Clarity™: Baby Steps to Organization
Do you have clutter in your life? Is it hard to motivate yourself to clear it out? This is a revolutionary program to clean clutter in a relaxed, easy way! Hypnotherapy uses the power of your subconscious mind to achieve success. This recording uses guided imagery to create the positive feeling to begin action. Put an end to the procrastination, agony and overwhelmed feelings, and begin a practice that reduces your obstacles for creating a beautiful home or office. This is the first recording in the Clutter to Clarity™ series. By Beverly Taylor. 27 minutes.
Baby Steps to Orderliness and On the Path of Organization Special
The Baby Steps mp3 is the first mp3 to use. It has 3 of the 4 “Secrets of Success” for decluttering. It begins the process. On the Path mp3 has the 4th Secret of Success and is the second mp3 to use. It continues the process started in the Baby Steps mp3. Many people start with Baby Steps, then go to On the Path. Then after awhile, you can choose whichever one seems right in that moment for you.
These are downloadable mp3s (not physical CDs).
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